Tuesday, 2 June 2026

relationships (Matthew 15:1-14) Healthy Perspectives

(Matthew 15:1-14)

Then some Pharisees and scribes came to Jesus from Jerusalem and said, 2 “Why do Your disciples break the tradition of the elders? For they do not wash their hands when they eat bread.” 3 And He answered and said to them, “Why do you yourselves also break the commandment of God for the sake of your tradition? 4 For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother,’ and, ‘The one who speaks evil of father or mother is to be put to death.’ 5 But you say, ‘Whoever says to his father or mother, “Whatever I have that would help you has been given to God,” 6 he is not to honor his father or mother.’ And by this you have invalidated the word of God for the sake of your tradition. 7 You hypocrites, rightly did Isaiah prophesy about you, by saying:

8   ‘This people honors Me with their lips,
     But their heart is far away from Me.
9   And in vain do they worship Me,
     Teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’”

10 After Jesus called the crowd to Him, He said to them, “Hear and understand! 11 It is not what enters the mouth that defiles the person, but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles the person.”

12 Then the disciples came and said to Him, “Do You know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this statement?” 13 But He answered and said, “Every plant which My heavenly Father did not plant will be uprooted. 14 Leave them alone; they are blind guides of blind people. And if a person who is blind guides another who is blind, both will fall into a pit.”

TODAY'S TAKEAWAY:

Striving to be clean and pure is healthy, helpful and good, but it is only in Jesus' forgiveness and salvation that we can be seen by God as holy, pure and righteous!  Being obedient is good, helpful and important, but only when we have entered into a personal relationship with the Lord God, and we are then being obedient because of God's love for us and our love for Him!  Respecting manmade traditions is okay, as long as they do not conflict or supersede God's commandments and guidance.  And maintaining healthy relationships and love for others is important, but no one should ever be considered more important than our relationship with the Lord God!

It is very helpful to keep in mind that the closer we grow to the Lord, and the more we strive to live in His will, the better our relationships will be with others... unless, of course, someone hates us because we are living for the Lord!  In those cases, what should we be doing?  From other verses in the Bible, we know that we are to love and pray for them.  And IF any opportunities present themselves, we can (in God's love and guidance), speak God's truth, of His love, mercy and grace.  But IF we find that they are only wanting to "discuss" in order to argue and change US... Jesus clearly tells His disciples (and us) exactly what to do!

We can see in verse 12 how the disciples were concerned by the fact that the pharisees had been offended by what Jesus said.  OF COURSE Jesus knew that the pharisees felt offended;  but His advice is simple... "Leave them alone!"  

We should not be surprised or disturbed by this or think we have to fix things.  "Leave them alone!" :
- don't try to stop them, and if they are your spiritual leaders, then it is time to find another church that is doctrinally sound 
- don't argue with people like this (because it will accomplish nothing)
- don't try to change or convict them (because only God's Holy Spirit can do this)
- don't try to appease them in any way (because this will only lead us into compromising God's truth)
- do continue to love and pray for them!!!
- and in all things, put our relationship with the Lord God first in our lives!!!

Monday, 1 June 2026

relationships (Matthew 14:34-36) Don't Take For Granted

(Matthew 14:34-36)

34 When they had crossed over, they came to land at Gennesaret. 35 And when the men of that place recognized Him, they sent word into all that surrounding region and brought to Him all who were sick; 36 and they pleaded with Him that they might just touch the border of His cloak; and all who touched it were cured.

TODAY'S TAKEAWAY

There are different viewpoints about how we approach the Lord.  Many people don't even regard God as a Being with a personality and feelings and desires, and only see Him as some vending machine in the sky, like... "oh, I need something, maybe if I 'put a coin in' and/or do something nice, and/or make some sort of motion, then make three wishes, all of my dreams will come true."  And as things don't happen, they grandly state that, "They tried it, but Christianity doesn't work!"  

Many people will look at Christianity as a religion to take seriously, and they will even serve God earnestly, but with the idea that they have to somehow earn their salvation, and/or God's favor.  But because we are born with a sinful nature, earning our way to heaven or earning God's favor is impossible.  And because it is all about having a personal relationship with the Lord, and the Lord desires that all come to know Him, He came to earth in flesh to pay the price.  He provided the way - the only way - to be saved (which is to be spiritually healed).  

This is the most important healing that anyone could ever have!  Another way to view this, is that salvation in Jesus is a reconciliation.  We humbly go to Him and repent, and He forgives us, for all eternity, so that as children of God, we can never be separated from Him!  While the Lord God has great compassion for all His children (all believers), when we get to heaven, we will be given glorified bodies, never to be sick or hurt again, and never to struggle with any type of sin ever again!

Meanwhile, here on earth, we will struggle, and because the Lord cares, and desires that we grow closer to Him in our personal relationship, He will help us.  Can the Lord God heal us physically?  Yes!  Can and will He still heal us physical?  Yes, but the question really should be - is it His will to do so?  Does it matter if we are struggling with our obedience?  Well, we know that God will allow different consequences into our lives, in order to draw us back to Him.  When we confess and choose to continue on in obedience, it is not a guarantee that God will remove these issues, but He will most certainly bless us with His joy, peace, strength, etc.  

God will allow various struggles into our lives, in order to draw us even closer to Him, as well as use these to help draw others to His kingdom!  Let's look at the apostle Paul as a good example, who definitely strived to live an obedient life... 

(2 Corinthians 12:7-9)  7 Because of the extraordinary greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself! 8 Concerning this I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might leave me. 9 And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.

relationships (Matthew 15:1-14) Healthy Perspectives

(Matthew 15:1-14) Then some Pharisees and scribes came to Jesus from Jerusalem and said, 2 “Why do Your disciples break the tradition of t...