Tuesday, 19 September 2023

relationships (Deuteronomy 7:1-26) Be Close to the Right People

(Deuteronomy 7:1-26)  “When the Lord your God brings you into the land where you are entering to possess it, and clears away many nations before you, the Hittites and the Girgashites and the Amorites and the Canaanites and the Perizzites and the Hivites and the Jebusites, seven nations greater and stronger than you, 2 and when the Lord your God delivers them before you and you defeat them, then you shall utterly destroy them. You shall make no covenant with them and show no favor to them. 3 Furthermore, you shall not intermarry with them; you shall not give your daughters to their sons, nor shall you take their daughters for your sons. 4 For they will turn your sons away from following Me to serve other gods; then the anger of the Lord will be kindled against you and He will quickly destroy you. 5 But thus you shall do to them: you shall tear down their altars, and smash their sacred pillars, and hew down their Asherim, and burn their graven images with fire.For you are a holy people to the Lord your God; the Lord your God has chosen you to be a people for His own possession out of all the peoples who are on the face of the earth.

“The Lord did not set His love on you nor choose you because you were more in number than any of the peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples, 8 but because the Lord loved you and kept the oath which He swore to your forefathers, the Lord brought you out by a mighty hand and redeemed you from the house of slavery, from the hand of Pharaoh king of Egypt. 9 Know therefore that the Lord your God, He is God, the faithful God, who keeps His covenant and His lovingkindness to a thousandth generation with those who love Him and keep His commandments; 10 but repays those who hate Him to their faces, to destroy them; He will not delay with him who hates Him, He will repay him to his face. 11 Therefore, you shall keep the commandment and the statutes and the judgments which I am commanding you today, to do them.

12 “Then it shall come about, because you listen to these judgments and keep and do them, that the Lord your God will keep with you His covenant and His lovingkindness which He swore to your forefathers. 13 He will love you and bless you and multiply you; He will also bless the fruit of your womb and the fruit of your ground, your grain and your new wine and your oil, the increase of your herd and the young of your flock, in the land which He swore to your forefathers to give you14 You shall be blessed above all peoples; there will be no male or female barren among you or among your cattle. 15 The Lord will remove from you all sickness; and He will not put on you any of the harmful diseases of Egypt which you have known, but He will lay them on all who hate you. 16 You shall consume all the peoples whom the Lord your God will deliver to you; your eye shall not pity them, nor shall you serve their gods, for that would be a snare to you.

17 “If you should say in your heart, ‘These nations are greater than I; how can I dispossess them?’ 18 you shall not be afraid of them; you shall well remember what the Lord your God did to Pharaoh and to all Egypt: 19 the great trials which your eyes saw and the signs and the wonders and the mighty hand and the outstretched arm by which the Lord your God brought you out. So shall the Lord your God do to all the peoples of whom you are afraid. 20 Moreover, the Lord your God will send the hornet against them, until those who are left and hide themselves from you perish. 21 You shall not dread them, for the Lord your God is in your midst, a great and awesome God. 22 The Lord your God will clear away these nations before you little by little; you will not be able to put an end to them quickly, for the wild beasts would grow too numerous for you. 23 But the Lord your God will deliver them before you, and will throw them into great confusion until they are destroyed. 24 He will deliver their kings into your hand so that you will make their name perish from under heaven; no man will be able to stand before you until you have destroyed them. 25 The graven images of their gods you are to burn with fire; you shall not covet the silver or the gold that is on them, nor take it for yourselves, or you will be snared by it, for it is an abomination to the Lord your God. 26 You shall not bring an abomination into your house, and like it come under the ban; you shall utterly detest it and you shall utterly abhor it, for it is something banned.

TODAY'S THOUGHTS AND MEDITATION:

We are to have friends and acquaintances with unbelievers, otherwise, how will we ever be a testimony.  But by having any sort of close relationship with unbelievers, it becomes more and more possible for us to be influenced by them.  Peer pressure is one thing, but it would be far more intense to have this in marriage.  In trying to maintain any level of intimacy, there will be conversations that become off-limits, as well as situations that require difficult decisions.  So if and when we compromise our faith and beliefs in order to "keep the peace" with an unbeliever, we will continue to drift away from the Lord... until we realize it is better to be near the Lord and we reconcile with Him.

Back in grade 9, my friends had become evasive as they began to hang out with several other girls.  I can now see that I should have just made different friends as well, but no - I tried to get close to them again and discovered that they were sneaking away to smoke cigarettes.  Because I didn't want to lose my friends again or look like a prissy Christian, I joined in, even though I had said I would never smoke because it is unhealthy and disgusting.  This lead to skipping school and lying to my parents.  But wouldn't you know it - I soon found myself friendless anyway!  These girls turned on me and accused me of being a big hypocrite, and spread vicious gossip about me to everyone in the school.  I was very alone, and very hurt, not just because no one would talk to me, but because I realized that I was actually being hypocritical.

In hindsight, while I thought I was "having fun", I was actually miserable.  That next summer, I went on a bicycle trip with a Bible camp and had so much fun... just hanging out with other Christians, and having good, healthy fun!  But when I got back home, I felt very empty and miserable again.  I could not understand why I felt so depressed, until I turned my heart back to the Lord, confessed and apologized to my parents, and stopped skipping youth group.  I made new friends who did love the Lord, and life was SO much better.  Even though there were still other issues that were outside of my control, I was able to better deal with those as I was now living in God's will and leaning on Him.

Was it God's will that I rebelled?  Certainly not!  Did anything "good" come out of that rebellious behavior?  No!  And then yes, as I learned a valuable lesson the hard way!  Doing things the world's way and doing things my way does nothing to guide or fulfill my life.  Doing things God's way - works!  It was pointless to fear the loss of my friends.  I only have to fear the Lord, because He is greater than all powers put together, He loves me and is faithful, He fulfils and completes me, and He wants the very best for me!

In returning to the Lord and deciding to live obediently in His will, THEN He worked things out for good!!!  And even in those "good times", there were still tests and trials, but because I was now allowing God to fight my battles, I had amazing inner peace and joy.  The more I see God work in my life, the more I know I can trust Him in everything, the closer I grow to the Lord... The closer I grow to the Lord, the more I see God work in my life, the more... You can see how this works!

While the world puts themselves and people first in their lives, life is so much better when we put God in first place!  While the world relies on their own wisdom in order to twist things around so that they can do what they want to do, we can trust in God's truths, because they truly work.  And while the world tries to do things and to fix things in their own strength, life is so much better when we lean on God's strength and ask and allow God to fix things for us!  The world serves the world, while we should desire to serve the Lord!  The world loves the world, but God loves us which should compel us to love - as God loves.  While the world makes friends with those in the world, it is beneficial to find and make Christian friends who will encourage us to continue growing in our faith and walk with the Lord!

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